We chose basic roses (mainly because of the cost...) but it really was gorgeous!

Our cake forks are the "Mr. & Mrs." forks I got as a gift at my shower! They are from Etsy.

We never bought a cake knife & server -- we just used the venue's.
We asked that the entire cake be cut up and displayed so that guests could have their choice of which flavor they wanted rather than be passed out from the kitchen. So, the DJ made an announcement letting everyone know where it was -- but we still had SO MUCH left over. Boxes & boxes!
We did freeze the topper and I guess we'll see how it tastes in a year! :)

P.S. - We leave for our Honeymoon on Sunday!